Age-play is NOT about sex with minors - it is a role-play between two consenting adults with one adult "pretending" to be younger, or older. Anyone who's kept up with this journal may have noticed my confusion about age-play and AB/DL (Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers). I had no clue what to say to these guys or what they were even looking for. Since then I've done some online research and taken a few more "mommy" calls. I'm still far from being an expert but I have learned a thing or two. I'll never forget my first related call, "Mommy, what do you think of my diaper?" I was speechless. Finally I managed to say, "Why are you wearing a diaper?" Next came the explanation of him being a bad boy that wets the bed and needs discipline. Huh??

That sent me straight to the Internet to do some research. I found a few pay-sites and on-line stores that cater to diaper lovers, but still no explanation as to why someone would want to pretend I'm their dear old mum. I did eventually find one site that offered some insight, but have since lost it. BTW if anyone knows of good websites, please share. The one I lost was created by a woman that enjoys "regressing" to a very young age and being cared for by her "daddy". And that pretty much tells you what I learned. The adult wants to feel child-like. They want to forget about responsibilities and daily worries and just be nurtured like a baby or child. Sometimes there's a D/s aspect with discipline, spanking and even humiliation. Sometimes it's sexual. They want to be "loved" by someone they trust. It's not the same as those "daddy snuck into my room late at night and made me touch him" calls. It's more about being cuddled and dressed up... and perhaps a hand sliding into the diaper once in a while to see if it's wet.

My vanilla callers are probably shaking their heads right now. If you don't have a fetish, it's hard to understand those who do. For anyone who steals shoes from co-workers (you know who you are) or goes to leather shops and watches ladies trying on gloves, you have an idea what the fascination with an object or activity can do to your psyche. There's nothing as satisfying as giving in occasionally and letting it take over.
I want to thank my friend, Sophie, for making sure I wasn't too far off the mark. Check her out at sophiesinclair.com

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